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Why Girls Do Porn
Why do girls do porn? Is it only about the money?
I’ve always contended money is not the only reason they do it.
Some say most women working in the sex trade were sexually molested as children. There are studies which conclude women in Porn are no more likely to have a history of sexual abuse than the general population. Although I did hear about some molestation from models and performers, it was usually other family dysfunctions that shaped their decision to enter Porn; broken homes, dead-beat Dads, Religious or other types of overly oppressive parenting. So often there seemed to be a general lack of respect and resentment for one or both parents and almost always from lower socioeconomic homes. Someone was always escaping their previous life.
Generally speaking, heterosexual men use sex for 2 reasons: pleasure or procreation (usually for pleasure). Women use sex for a myriad of other reasons, including but not limited to obtaining money, material things or attention, to get revenge on a boyfriend (or a girlfriend), to get a job, etc . There was a study of 1,006 women from all over the world about their motivations for having sex. They identified 237 different reasons. Women throughout the ages have often had to use sex literally for their survival.
To some extent different cultures attitudes toward sex also make a difference (I get into this in another chapter).
What would make a nice young girl like Faye Reagan want to do a 50 guy “Blow Bang”? (I say 50 because I believe that is the number she told me back then however after researching this just now it appears the actual number is closer to 23)
A “Blow Bang” is where one woman blows a group of men and she swallows their semen; which is an offshoot of Bukkake (a group of men masturbate and ejaculate onto her face). Bukkake supposedly originated in Japan, centuries ago with the intended purpose of punishment and humiliation for wives accused of adultery.
When I met Faye she was a uniquely cute and perfectly built 18 year from a small town in Nevada called Pahrump. Freckly faced with natural flowing red hair, beautiful natural breasts and unique “plushy” nipples. She had the “teen” look. In adult industry terms, her options were wide open. She easily could have worked continuously for at least a few years making pretty good money as a solo nude model – without even touching another person. This would have also kept her options open for expanding her limits to include girl/girl or boy/girl or 23-boys/girl work later on.
In her first weeks of being in the industry she was staying at my house while working jobs around Los Angeles. I remember the afternoon she came back from her blow bang. I opened the front door and saw her sauntering up my grass.
“How was your day?” I asked.
“I’ve had better. I threw up several times”
I don’t know exactly what Faye got paid to be ejaculated on by 23 guys and swallow it all, but my estimated guess is that is was less than $5,000
(I thought I remember her saying she got paid $3,500 but what’s the difference?)
You have to ask yourself as a woman, no matter how broke or destitute you are, would you do the same? on or off camera, for five grand? Would you do it for $10,000? Would you do it for $100,000 ? Ok so you might do it for a million dollars but it doesn’t matter because nobody’s going to pay that. In fact they’re not gonna even pay you $10,000 (I’ll bet). There are millions of young women from the same economic class as Faye, but the vast majority would not swallow the semen from 23 guys for any amount of money. Period.
So I can’t answer specifically why any one Porn Actress does porn. I’ll let the psychologists and experts answer that question. However I know it’s not only about the money. It is entirely possible they frankly just like it.
